Exactly what butter said. Just give your best "bedroom" sexy smile. You don't need to expose your "bits" to get hits. Of course if you did, you WILL get more hits, but what kind of attention are you looking for?


As for your profile, I think that it is fine the way it is, though I would fix some spelling and don't spend too much time worrying about how much info you have in there about yourself as most only read as far down as "Annual Income" - if that.

You are a true gentelman butterbll

It is just my humble opinion that a true lady woman does not advertise her abilities in the bedroom for all to see.But she only lets the special man in her life know those secrets.

Ariesram, you are so right. I switched my pic from more flesh to less and my winks have diminished. Are you telling me that I have to expose myself to prove that I am a confident woman? (see pic two) :)

Quoting: Originally posted by ariesram Bugger! I was going to say that! Yep,a BIG grin,will help. And from MY point of view,MORE FLESH. I know this aint a sex site,yet,and i've been a member on a couple of thoes,but i like to see a BBW,or ...

Ariesram, you make me laugh. he he
Oh course you would want to see more flesh, your male!!
But what makes you think that if a woman is not showing flesh on her profile that she wants to hide in private?  more...

Quoting: Originally posted by ariesram Bugger! I was going to say that! Yep,a BIG grin,will help. And from MY point of view,MORE FLESH. I know this aint a sex site,yet,and i've been a member on a couple of thoes,but i like to see a BBW,or any woman,who is at ease as to how her body looks. After all,if i see a profile with a little bit more flesh showing (i don't mean 'them' bits),that lets me know that she aint one of the MANY women out there,who would prefer to have sex/make love with the lights off!

Ariesram, you make me laugh. he he
Oh course you would want to see more flesh, your male!!
But what makes you think that if a woman is not showing flesh on her profile that she wants to hide in private? less...

Hello there and welcome !

My suggestion is be certain to post a photo that is not from more than 6 months ago, and be honest about your size, the kind of relationship you want, and if you have specifics about they type of man like tall or short or race or distance then make that very clear.

You are a lovely woman and I sincerely wish that you find someone who will appreciate you, embrace you and everything that makes you special ! Good Luck !

Hi there Mom2oneson,
Welcome, I think your profile is great, your sincere and open.
Only suggestion I have is to have a pic showing you smiling. Your a good looking lady, so show it off.
Best of luck in your search.